Joaquín, my husband, was the kind of man who didn’t need to raise his voice to fill a house with peace. He worked in a bank in Guadalajara, he loved fishing, strong coffee and checkered shirts that I told him were already old. Our son Mateo was 12 years old, he served tens, played baseball, and still let me adjust his hair before going to school, even though I pretended it bothered him.
We lived well, without offensive luxuries, but with stability. Joaquín had inherited a small apartment near the center from his grandmother. We didn’t need it, so when Verónica and Rubén said they couldn’t save to buy a house, we lent them to them without charging rent. “The family helps each other”, Joaquín told me, and I nodded proudly, without imagining that those same people would one day charge me for my kindness with contempt.