My wife left me with our six daughters for a wealthy man. Fifteen years later she texted to say she’d be at our oldest daughter’s wedding — and my daughter told me to let her come, because she had already prepared a special welcome for her.

Junia had my hands in both of hers. We had been standing there about a minute; she’d come over to say something about her sister Bess and had just taken hold of my hands the way she does.

Sabina stepped in between us, put a hand flat on my chest and pressed me back a step, and took my daughter’s hands out of mine.

I did not push back. I want to be honest that this was not restraint. I simply did not move, the way you don’t move when something happens too fast.