But I kept a small savings account.
Not much.
Enough for books.
Registration.
Maybe part of tuition.
Sarah wanted to study nursing.
She volunteered at a senior center.
She talked about eventually becoming a pediatric nurse.
Kevin dismissed it.
“You’re not focused enough.”
“You quit everything.”
Sarah stared at him.
“What have I quit?”
He had no real answer.
He simply hated being challenged.
Then my job changed.
I worked as an administrative coordinator for a regional insurance company.
The salary was modest.
But steady.
Most of my income paid for groceries.
Utilities.
Sarah’s clothes.
Household expenses Kevin considered “small things.”
Kevin paid the mortgage.
He reminded me constantly.
“My paycheck keeps this roof over us.”
When I complained about his treatment of Sarah, he sometimes said,
“You both forget whose house this is.”
Technically, the house was in his name.
He had purchased it six months before we married.
For years, I did not care.
A marriage should not feel like a property dispute.
At least, that was what I told myself.
Then came the work trip.
Three days.
That was all.
My company was opening a new office in Raleigh.
My manager asked me to help train support staff.