He waited until Ethan went to get water.
Then quietly said:
“This matters because he thinks he’s doing something for your dad.”
I looked toward the kitchen.
Ethan was carefully refilling the same glass because he had spilled two drops.
“I know.”
Adrian squeezed my hand.
“He’ll be perfect.”
He was the first person, other than me, who never questioned it.
My mother worried that Ethan might become overwhelmed by all the people standing.
Adrian said:
“Then we pause.”
My uncle wondered whether the music might confuse him.
Adrian said:
“Then we wait.”
One bridesmaid asked whether someone should walk behind us in case Ethan needed help.
Adrian said:
“He’ll tell us if he needs help.”
Every concern ended the same way when it reached Ethan.
“I practiced.”
That was his answer.
Crowd?
“I practiced.”
Music?
“I practiced.”
Turn at the front?
“I practiced.”
Handshake?
“I practiced.”
And that should have been the end of it.
Everyone who mattered supported the plan.
Then Margaret Cole invited us to dinner.
Margaret was Adrian’s mother.
I had known her for almost five years by then.
We had never been close.
But we had always managed civility.
Margaret was a woman who believed almost every social problem could be prevented through advance planning.
Christmas cards went out before December.
Dinner napkins were pressed.
