My thirteen-year-old son, Evan, had wanted a matte-black bike with orange lettering for almost a year. He never asked me to buy it. Instead, he found a Saturday job washing dishes at a diner and told me, proudly, “I want to pay for it myself.”
That was Evan. His father had died three years earlier, and afterward my son seemed to grow up overnight. He stopped asking for things, helped around the house, and became determined not to add to my burdens. Every Saturday, he came home smelling like dish soap and fryer grease, his hands red from the hot water. Whenever I asked how much he had saved, he smiled and said, “Almost there.”